Friday, February 13, 2015

CELEBRATING VALENTINE'S DAY "CELIBATELY"




Saturday of the Fifth Week in Ordinary Time, February 14
Gn 3:9-24/ Ps 90/ Mk 8:1-10

Finally, the most awaited, or in some cases, much hated, day of February has come. It’s Valentine’s Day! Facebook and the rest of social media will be very busy today accommodating posts, pictures, and tweets on love and loving. And for sure, anywhere you go, you can always see heart-shaped balloons flying or heart-shaped cakes sold in bakeshops. Hearts everywhere! Even our Gospel today talks about the heart. Shall Valentine’s Day be a sad day for us celibates?

In our Gospel, we heard Jesus say, “My heart is moved with pity for the crowd because they have been with me now for three days and have nothing to eat.” We see Jesus as a man very much in touch with his emotions. We also see him as a man who was very sensitive to the needs of the people and he was not afraid of having his innermost being moved, shaken, or even broken with compassion. This is important for us celibate lovers and those preparing for this life. In staying within the comfort zone of our academic and intellectual pursuits, we could end up like the dry pages of a book. In our effort to secure our life of celibacy, we could end up sterile, calloused, or unaffected, even bitter. Pope Francis told us “to learn how to weep” and this involves getting in touch with our emotions, with our heart, with our innermost self. Jesus in our Gospel was not afraid to tell his disciples how he felt: “My heart is moved with pity.” And he claims responsibility for the needs of the people. As Antoine de St. Exupery wrote in the The Little Prince, “You become responsible forever for what you have tamed.”

Pity, mercy, compassion, then is God’s response to the hunger of the people, a hunger that could be traced back to our First Reading, when Adam and Eve were expelled from the garden and forbidden to eat from the tree of life. Humanity hungered for the word of God and the signs of God’s closeness to his people. And Jesus satisfied this hunger as he also satisfies their physical hunger. This feeding of the crowd also foreshadows the spiritual food and drink that truly satisfies: the total and unconditional self-giving love of Jesus on the cross made present in the Holy Eucharist.

Here in the Eucharist, “when Sacred Scripture is read, God Himself speaks to His people” and he feeds us with his own Body and Blood. In the Eucharist, we encounter God, his mercy and compassion, and we are assured of a heart that beats for us, a love that Pope Francis says “always goes ahead of us,” “open arms where broken hearts go, a love that’s waiting there.” As celibate lovers, we need not go to Rome, Baguio, or Sagada. We only need to come to the foot of this altar, before this God “who gives joy to our youth” and has been “our refuge in every age.” He will teach us how to be in touch with our true selves, with our deepest emotions. He will teach us how to weep, and with our tears, he will make our lives and ministry fruitful.

This is therefore our challenge today: to claim that we are in love, that we are truly, madly, and deeply in love with the God who calls us, who has loved us first despite our sinfulness. And he sends us forth to radiate his love in a world so much in need of real love, so much in need of God. This truth becomes the firm ground of our being, and we can truly focus on our vocation so that when dark and dry days come, we will never fall out of love nor be overwhelmed by the brokenness of this world.


And so as we go about this day, we need not be forlorn nor be part of those who hate this day. We might not have someone to hold, but we know that we are held by the one who called us, one whose “heart was moved with pity,” who truly, madly, deeply loves us. As we offer bread and wine, let us also once more offer ourselves; let us offer our “seven loaves and a few fish”—our all. And as we receive him in Holy Communion, let us tell him, “Make me cling to you; never permit me to be separated from you.” Amen.

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